Do Narcissists Ever Hit Rock Bottom?
"Do narcissists have a line they won't cross? Is there a low too low for them to go? Do they eventually see the error of their ways? Do they ever hit rock bottom?" I've been asked these questions more...
View ArticleThe First Holiday Season Without the Narcissist or Borderline
Spending the holidays with a narcissist is often anything but merry. If you’ve been in a relationship with a personality disordered woman or man or come from a family that’s chock full 'o' nuts...
View ArticleHealthy Boundaries, Part 2: The Joy of No! [Video]
Healthy boundaries are a basic building block of healthier relationships. The ability to someone no without guilt is an essential skill if you'd like to begin practicing interpersonal boundaries and...
View ArticleNarcissist Fight Club Rule #6: Multiple Arguments to Derail and Distract
Relationships with narcissists, borderlines, histrionics, psychopaths, other bullies, professional victims and emotional reasoners are often riddled with conflict. After the idealization or love...
View ArticleThe Final Child Support Payment to a Borderline or Narcissistic Ex: Brace...
Some ex-spouses accept and plan for the fact that child support will someday come to an end. These same individuals also tend to see child support as temporary supplemental income. Child support isn't...
View ArticleNarcissist Dictionary: Safe Sex [Meme]
Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water . . . or dating pool. This applies to all self-absorbed, emotionally immature, entitled and irrational toxic people of all genders (not sure...
View ArticleThat’s Not Normal: Narcissists Feel Victimized by Logic, Facts and Being Held...
This applies to narcissists, borderlines, histrionics, psychopaths and all chronically immature people. Male, female and however many other genders there are now. Memes that have more than 2-3 lines of...
View ArticleThat’s Not Normal: Her Parents Are Surprised and Grateful that You Want to...
In case there's any doubt, it's not normal for parents to be dismayed that someone would want to date or marry their daughter or son. Were your future in-laws surprised, confused, grateful and relieved...
View ArticleSex with Borderlines: Confusing Intensity for Intimacy, Part 2
Myths about amazing sex with borderlines and narcissists proliferate the Internet. Sex with borderlines isn't amazing (contrary to urban legend). Same goes for sex with narcissists. To be clear, we're...
View ArticleCo-Parenting with a Narcissist: Being “the Asshole,” Part 2
In part one of this series, I explain why co-parenting with a narcissist means being "the asshole." To clarify, being the asshole doesn't mean being an arrogant, controlling, unreasonable jerk. Rather,...
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